We, your father and mother, feel a deep interest for you. You may sometimes think that your parents are too strict, that they watch you too closely; but, dear boys, our love for you is great. We have dedicated you to God. You are His, and we must keep you separate from the world, that you may be the Lord’s. We want your lives to be right and pleasing in His sight. Don’t feel discouraged, my children. Satan is ready to lead your young minds; but go to God, seek Him for strength, pray much, give your hearts’ best affections to Him. 9An Appeal to the Youth, 74, 75. Sabbathkeeping children may become impatient and think their parents too strict; hard feelings may even arise in their hearts, and unhappy thoughts against those who are working for their present, future, and eternal good. But if life should be spared a few years, they will bless their parents for their strict care and faithful watchfulness over them. Children of eight, ten, or twelve years of age are old enough to be addressed on the subject of personal religion. Very young children may have correct views of the way of salvation through Christ. LASW 57.2
It is the duty of parents to watch the going out and coming in of their children. They should lead them to see that their parents are interested for them. They should make home pleasant and cheerful. 10Spiritual Gifts 4b, 142, 143 LASW 58.1